Woman Is Fat-Shamed By Husband, Loses Weight And Dumps Him

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Bet he’s regretting it now.

Just like the Australian woman lost weight after an ex called her “fat,” the same can be said for a 27-year-old woman named Haley Bienert who shed some weight after hurtful comments from her own husband.

Bienert reveals that she found herself binge eating during a toxic relationship with her husband — so much so that she saw herself weigh up to 224 pounds. Bienert also reveals that she would munch on a Subway foot-long, a bag of chips and four cookies for lunch before washing it down with a coke. This is what Bienert looked like before.

Photo: Haley Bienert

Photo: Instagram/Haley Bienert

But three years later and Bienert has had a dramatic transformation as she now weighs 140 pounds. Oh, she also dumped the man that made her feel so crummy through the years.

And now this is Bienert today.

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Quite the change. Here’s what Bienert had to say.

“I do know that it was an accumulation of the way I grew up and the toxic relationship I put myself in with my ex-husband. I have always been a little bit chubby, and when my ex and I got married we partied a lot and ate horribly. I had gained more weight and he didn’t like it. One night he had been drinking and he told me in so many words that I was fat and he wasn’t attracted to me anymore.

When I heard that, it was like a switch had gone off in my brain, I never saw my body the same way after that. I felt inferior, I felt ugly and I felt unworthy. So I ate. I binge ate until I ballooned to more than sixteen-stone.

After I had grown the mental strength to leave my ex, I realized that I needed to change something in my life. I couldn’t change my overall current situation, but I knew I had total control over my body and my health. For so long, I had felt as though I didn’t have an identity, that my body fat percentage was my identity, that that is all people ever saw, including my ex.

So I cut my hair, dyed it red and purchased the a beach body workout programme and in three months I lost more than three-stone.”

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And obviously Bienert is now a ten, and she’s rid herself of a garbage dude. Check out more of Bienert below.

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h/t Mirror

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